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May. 10th, 2013 10:45 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
demakatmy dad is down stairs yelling about my brother. My brother has already driven off somewhere.
My brother was at his graduation ceremony from the community college we've all gone to. He then made a comment at dinner about how he didn't want to be there. Everyone seems to assume he meant waiting through the ceremony thing, but I'm pretty sure he meant the dinner we all attended afterwards.
I don't know if that is really correct or not, but I can see how he could be upset about it. My sister suggested we all have dinner at the restaurant she works at after the ceremony. I don't know why but he didn't really want to do that, and then he got upset when maddie and bernie brought out a cake for him. It's almost like too big a deal was made out of this, or something.
It's almost like too much focus on him or something. I tried to explain in a plain manner at dinner after he had left angrily. That just because he doesn't subscribe to their social norms doesn't mean that he's done anything wrong. My mom pointed out that when he was small he would behave badly so that everyone had to leave where ever we were, accept now he's an adult and can simply get up and leave.
I remain complacent, and I go along with things because I understand that other people see them as normal.
sadly I can't even ask if this is really what it is because he's angry right now where ever he is and I'd probably just get snapped at or make it worse.
...turns out I was wrong. text conversations!
My brother was at his graduation ceremony from the community college we've all gone to. He then made a comment at dinner about how he didn't want to be there. Everyone seems to assume he meant waiting through the ceremony thing, but I'm pretty sure he meant the dinner we all attended afterwards.
I don't know if that is really correct or not, but I can see how he could be upset about it. My sister suggested we all have dinner at the restaurant she works at after the ceremony. I don't know why but he didn't really want to do that, and then he got upset when maddie and bernie brought out a cake for him. It's almost like too big a deal was made out of this, or something.
It's almost like too much focus on him or something. I tried to explain in a plain manner at dinner after he had left angrily. That just because he doesn't subscribe to their social norms doesn't mean that he's done anything wrong. My mom pointed out that when he was small he would behave badly so that everyone had to leave where ever we were, accept now he's an adult and can simply get up and leave.
I remain complacent, and I go along with things because I understand that other people see them as normal.
sadly I can't even ask if this is really what it is because he's angry right now where ever he is and I'd probably just get snapped at or make it worse.
...turns out I was wrong. text conversations!
